dude watching me, we ended up chatting and he gave me his number and directions to his work if i ever needed help with what he does. I think he might like me because of the way he kept watching me or whatever. I think he is in his 40s. What would you do if you were me? I like bikers idk about the age thing but i don’t think men are truly able to settle down unless they are close to death anyway.
i clicked on it john and srry im not ganna read all that and you look 40 to me (you asked in the beginning how old do yu look)
If he appeals to you, you have nothing to loose but to get to know him better & see if the two of you have things in common. If you do, you think you’d enjoy going w/him, then by all means pursue it. You’ve just gotten divorced 3 mons. ago, so just be careful w/anyone in the beginning as you don’t want it to be a "rebound" situation. He gave you his number, directions to his work, so I’d say that’s a "starter" for you. For now tho I wouldn’t be looking for "marriage material", I’d be looking for someone to have some fun & do things with. So forget the "age thing" for now & just go w/the flo. My "ex" had a bike & we went on some fun trips. The longest one was a 9 hr. trip I can’t forget as we had to stop every 1 1/2 hrs. or we got numb in our "sitting areas" if we didn’t…lol I also was a legal sec. at that time, so I didn’t have to worry about going w/the more "sofisticated" person just because of my career position! The most important thing is to whatever makes you happy regardless of who they are, what they do, or even their age. When the rite one comes along, you’ll know it & that’s when it’s time to start taking things more seriously. For now just enjoy the "ride" of being free & don’t be in a hurry to tie any knots for the time being, that day WILL come…the best to you…:)
February 21st, 2010 at 7:51 am
How can anyone answer this for you? You like what you like. If you want a biker, then go for it. I personally prefer my men to be more polished and sophisticated, so I can’t help.
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 8:19 am
Trust me !!..He have plenty of 25yro chicks coming there for HELP !!
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 8:42 am
Do you want to date a person that is old enough to be your Father?
You’re 25- and he’s in his 40’s hanging out at a bar. Hmmmm- what do you think?
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 9:30 am
40 is not close to death. it is just the middle part of life. us older types have just learned we are not 10 foot tall and bullet proof, and to respect others. give it a shot. you can always split up if ya find it isn’t working out
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 9:58 am
Go out with him for as long as you enjoy his company. If I were you, my focus would be on companionship not finding my next husband.
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 10:41 am
So.. U R 25 and he is 40? lately girls are telling me age is only a number
and something CRAZY happen to me in the last 2 & 1/2 years but I decided
to put a stop to it. read this, and you are welcome to respond if you want to
http://jmatelo.com/me.html
I posted the question here a few days ago
References :
February 21st, 2010 at 10:50 am
If he appeals to you, you have nothing to loose but to get to know him better & see if the two of you have things in common. If you do, you think you’d enjoy going w/him, then by all means pursue it. You’ve just gotten divorced 3 mons. ago, so just be careful w/anyone in the beginning as you don’t want it to be a "rebound" situation. He gave you his number, directions to his work, so I’d say that’s a "starter" for you. For now tho I wouldn’t be looking for "marriage material", I’d be looking for someone to have some fun & do things with. So forget the "age thing" for now & just go w/the flo. My "ex" had a bike & we went on some fun trips. The longest one was a 9 hr. trip I can’t forget as we had to stop every 1 1/2 hrs. or we got numb in our "sitting areas" if we didn’t…lol I also was a legal sec. at that time, so I didn’t have to worry about going w/the more "sofisticated" person just because of my career position! The most important thing is to whatever makes you happy regardless of who they are, what they do, or even their age. When the rite one comes along, you’ll know it & that’s when it’s time to start taking things more seriously. For now just enjoy the "ride" of being free & don’t be in a hurry to tie any knots for the time being, that day WILL come…the best to you…:)
References :